The Debt Settlement Support Center

Facing the Initial Impact of Debt Settlement

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Debt Settlement

Every person is unique, but when you face a challenge like handling settlement of your debts, you are never alone. Countless men and women have faced the exact same problem and have survived and thrived. The following guide is designed to help you navigate your journey with the best information and resources that helped other survivors when they faced the same challenge.

TSC has scoured the Internet and assembled links to the very best debt-settlement resources: Articles, blogs, forums and tools that can help you make better decisions and take action to overcome the range of physical, emotional and other challenges that you face.

As you’ll see, we always welcome your ideas and suggestions to make this Debt Settlement guide even more helpful to survivors like you.


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Survivors Say: The Best Resources for Debt Settlement

The Big Picture

Debt settlement is a perfectly legal solution for consumers drowning in unpaid bills and seeking an alternative to bankruptcy. It is one way to pay off your debt for thousands less than you owe, yet it isn't as simple as making an agreement with a debtor. Experts say only a small amount  of debtors are good candidates for debt settlement. If you want to go this route, you can settle debts in one of two ways: do it yourself or have a professional debt-settlement company help you.

In the first option, you negotiate with each of your creditors that in exchange for an agreed-upon one-time payment -- typically, between 20% and 75% of what you owe -- the creditor forgives the rest of your debt and starts reporting it to the credit bureaus as settled. Meanwhile, you'll need to put money aside toward the settlement and stop making payments to your creditors. On your credit reports, the balances of settled debts will show $0, but your previous history of delinquent payments or charge-offs will remain on your report. If you choose to go with a debt-settlement company, you'll pay dearly for their help -- some companies charge 15% to 17% of your debt amount upfront, some charge around 25% of the debt savings once you settle, along with other service fees, and others charge a flat monthly fee.

Debt Settlement Pros and Cons

Why DIY Debt Settlement is Better Than Hiring a Settlement Company

Your Debt Settlement


There is no point in pursuing debt settlement as an option if you continue to have the same poor financial habits that got you into debt in the first place. Whether it's living beyond means or an issue with credit cards, you must get your financial house in order.

Calculator: How Much Debt is Too Much?


Make a Financial Goals Worksheet

Your World


Prepare for the immediate effects of debt settlement. You will be contacted by creditors, and your credit will take a blow.

Debt Settlement and Dealing with Creditors

Explaining Debt Settlement to Family and Friends


Trying to conceal your debt problem will often result in it getting worse as you try to maintain the illusion that everything is OK. Also, keeping it a secret from your family will usually stop you from taking the tough measures you need to resolve your debt problem. But once you're able to swallow your pride and take on the role of survivor, you can easily explain it.

Dealing with Debt - You Need to Talk to Someone

Debt Settlement Myths

  • "Debt-settlement companies can have all my debt eliminated within 12 months." 
  • "Credit-card debt is illegal, and you need to pay legal fees to get rid of it."
  • "It's not a good idea to settle debts with creditors yourself."
Bankrate.com: Settle Your Debts Yourself

Dealing With Debt Settlement

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Information and Recommended Links for Survivors


Survivors say these are the best resources for guidance – check them out to find out more about your options.

Choosing a Debt Settlement Program

Before you find yourself in the midst of dealing with a crooked debt settlement company, consider these recommendations for finding reputable organizations.

Debt Settlement America: How to Choose a Debt Settlement Company

FinancialWeb: Choosing a Debt Settlement Company

How to Rebuild Your Credit After Debt Settlement


Your credit rating will have taken a monster hit before and during debt settlement. Take the the steps necessary to begin rebuilding your credit.

Life After a Debt Negotiation Program

Alternatives to Debt Settlement


There are several options to consider for debt relief that don't involve entering a contract with a settlement company.

About.com: Debt Settlement Alternatives

Books Survivors Recommend

Information for Co-Survivors

How You Can Help

  • Provide a solid example of responsible debt management and offer a source of accountability to the survivor.
  • Help out incrunching numbers to determine what other options might be available for handling the debt.

What to Say

  • "Let's sit down and crunch some finances, and maybe I can help you find some ways to reallocate funds."
  • "I know you're frustrated with your debt, and if you'd like to vent, I'm here to listen."
  • "Others have survived this, and I know you will, too."

What Not to Say

  • "I've seen this coming for years."
  • "Your credit will be ruined after settling your debt through a service."
  • "You should just file for bankruptcy and start over"

Things You Can do For a Survivor Today and Everyday

  • Help the survivor establish good credit and financial habits.
  • If you're the spouse, you can offer an extra dose of patience and offer support by providing accountability.
  • Present opportunities to have good times without spending money.

How to Build a Support Network

  • Set up your TSC Co-Survivor Profile
  • Create a support group for your loved one going through debt settlement
  • Interact with others, share stories and offer advice to help other survivors and co-survivors

How to Help a Survivor Deal with Day-to-Day Challenges

  • Work – Suggest ways of saving money at work. Bringing coffee and lunch instead of stopping at Starbucks and eating out can reallocate well over $100 a month for debt relief.
  • School – If a debt settlement survivor is a student, tell him he needs to focus his time and finances toward getting through debt and school, pinching pennies, and then enjoying the rewards upon completion.
  • Home – The undesirable stress associated with debt, even in the settlement process, can cloud the air in your house. Help offer reminders of the bigger picture. The debt settlement process is only temporary and much more tolerable when accompanied by a positive attitude. The more money that can be applied toward debt, the faster a survivor can begin to thrive.

Recover & Thrive

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Living Life to the Fullest During the Debt Settlement Process


You can get out of debt without sitting at home and dwelling on your current financial woes. Consider some ideas from other debt survivors who have found ways to enjoy life while handling heavy financial matters.

Paying it Off: What Makes You Feel Rich While Being Frugal?

Zen Habits: Eliminate Debt with the Debt Snowball

Giving Back

  • Create a TSC Survivor Profile
  • Share your story, your successes and struggles with other survivors and co-survivors
  • Become a mentor to another survivor

Worst Case

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There are circumstances in which debt settlement may only offer a temporary solution if you possess a large amount of unsecured debt, and bad financial habits. In such a case, debt will continue to accrue, and you could be faced with defaulting on your settlement payments. Once that happens, there's a chance that your only realistic option would be filing for bankruptcy. True debt settlement requires financial responsibility.

Your Five-Minute Guide to Bankruptcy

You'll find detailed information on bankruptcy in The Survivors Club Bankruptcy Guide.

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