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One of the toughest decisions many gay and lesbian people face over the course of their entire lives is making their sexual identity known to their parents, family and friends. Most, but not all, human cultures have very fixed gender stereotypes and many have very rigid ideas about human sexuality.

Most gay and lesbian people know from a very early age that they do not fall within gender stereotypes and their ideas of what is attractive in a mate are not in line with what many expect. When a son, daughter, sibling or friend chooses to tell you that they are gay or lesbian, they are telling you something they may have kept hidden for decades. They are telling you something they do not feel they have to hide anymore. When someone you love or are close to comes out to you, you may find yourself in a situation you may not have seen coming. It may make you reevaluate your views on issues such as gender, sexuality, and identity.

You may have many questions and thoughts as to what your loved one is going through and how to help them continue on their journey of being comfortable with their sexuality. There are many resources to help you understand this incredibly important time in your loved one’s life. Read articles at KinseyInstitute.org and About.com.

If you are a gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, or transgendered person who is considering opening up to your family and loved ones about your sexuality, the decision to come out can be very difficult. Being afraid, ashamed, or confused are natural emotions. To connect with others who are going through the same thing, go to GayCenter.org or The ACLU.

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